Poor you I think as women we have a lot to deal with and everyone's experience is diffrent.i am 64 and had hystorectomy 21 yrs ago and as I said now in last 12 months need more vagifem 3 a week as apposed to 1 or 2 as estrogen drops you seem to need more I am not on hrt never offerd it me as still kept ovaries.its a mind field my issue is not enough vagifem painfully bladder cramps and uncomfortable down below. But too many am I aggregating my bladder with them.i suffer from health anxiety and so have had many test for all sorts. Anyway hope you get sorted I am knew to this and keep posting my worries but not sure if anyone sees them. Dancing girl and hurdity are great as are others. Need a brew and calm down just keep crying x