A lot of VA sufferers need more than 2 Vagifem a week. There used to be a 25mcg version, the current version only contains 10 mcg estradiol. The original license for the product was for the 25 mcg version, which is where the 2 per week dose after the 14 day loading comes from. Thus, everyone is being underdosed, both on the loading and the maintenance dose 🤷♀️. You can safely use 5 Vagifem per week. Also, there is the Estring which delivers just over 50 mcg estradiol per week.
If you want to use Ovestin or estriol cream just on the labia (in addition to Vagifem internally) and you find it stings, you can mix it with a vaginal moisturiser that you know you tolerate, and that helps lessen the sting while you get used to it.
It can take quite a long time to get on top of VA symptoms, several weeks, or even a few months for some, but it does get better eventually.
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