There are no options to stopping the loss of oestrogen which contributes to atrophy. Do read the 'bladder issues' and 'vaginal atrophy' threads which I bumped last week. Appropriate VA treatment is essential. Why would treatment affect the eyes or increase glaucoma?
In the mean time have a look at the 'sylc' and 'yes' websites. Some ladies find that using VA treatment internally as well as moisturisers on the outer labial areas really helpful. When I get the need2P feelings, I take 2 'nurofen' capsules 3 times a day which eases the spincter as it shuts off the urine flow.
Let us know how you get on.
As oestrogen levels drop off the body may become dry: inside and out. Skin, vagina, hair, deep in the ears, eyes ............