Thank you for your replies.
I did once speak to my GP, a few years ago, and was prescribed some kind of pessary; I don't remember what it was, but it didn't help.
My husband has just lost one of his sisters; not covid related; so he's obviously feeling upset about this, but has been shutting me out and not talking; he's just been sitting in the chair scrolling on his phone.
Last Sunday he decided he was going to his other sister's for a few days, which is fine, but once he was there he started messaging me on Facebook about how unsupportive I have been, not making love for 4 years, and that he might as well not be here; I have a feeling his sister had a hand in this as she is very opinionated.
I suggested talking about it properly when he comes home, but he said it wasn't easy for him, and has pretty much ignored my messages since then; the last message was that he would be home Thursday, but he didn't say what time.
We've been together for 25 years and I don't want to throw that all away, so was hoping someone might have a suggestion that might help to improve my sex drive; although, I think my sex drive started to go downhill after having the kids, but it's non-existent now