Can I also join this discussion, as I popped into the Forum today (after a LONG absence) to ask/research the exact same question!
For me, I've been on HRT probably about 6 years now and it has helped enormously with flushes, joint aches, restless legs, sleep and concentration. Despite being post-menopausal (I'm nearly 55) I've stuck with a low dose sequential regime - Elleste Duet 1mg (or Novofem, which is the same, when there have been shortages) as I found that a continuous regime just sort of dulled me down and left me felt feeling continuously 'flat' and sad.
I've also read about the benefits of transdermal HRT and tried patches (Estradot) and Utrogestan, but I had such a terrible reaction to the Utrogestan - it gave me blurred vision, migraines and left me so knocked out at night that I ended up damaging my shoulder by sleeping heavily and awkwardedly on it.
I've recently started sleeping less well again and I wonder if I need slightly more estrogen sometimes? I'd love to manage this by using Estrogen gel, rather than simply getting a higher (double!) dose tablet.
Are there any other alternatives for the progesterone part, other than Utrogestan and Mirena (I really don't want the Mirena)? Can you get any other progesterone tablets to match with transdermal estrogen?
It's so hard to find any specialist healthcare people to talk to about this. The private meno consultant is £250 for an initial chat and £200 per follow up!