Always prided myself on my finances being organised without the aid of internet banking which I dont trust. have a little note book write it all down and do my sums.
DH just got 'one of those' letters for bounced payment, he was just about to go nuts at them when realised it was one I pay. I have just gone through everything, I know we had a bit of a blip at the end of July and had a lot to sort out to get straight again but 'should' all be straight now. Somehow I have gone very very wrong, or I have been 'done'. Of course no bank open now till Monday around here, and I cant go then as no time with work and appointments etc, dont have telephone banking either so cant talk to anyone without it. DH is now insisting I go to bank, sort it out and get internet banking so I can see everything without doing sums in my 'meno brain'.
Quite sad now if it seems I cannot even add up anymore

Be happier if I had 'been done'... thinking about it, might see if the one in town is open tomorrow, bit of a hike etc but worth it.