mrs p you kind of hit the nail in the head, the more busy and stressed we are the worse the flushes get? I know when mine were behaving themselves it was either getting stressy or doing something heavy physically would cause the occasional one.
Soooo, maybe are they worse for our generation as probably the majority are still working and raising families as women leave it later to start families? I think our generation maybe have so much more to cope with and then some are having to look after parents as well. We had hoped when we moved to Oz to start to take it easy but thanks to the cost of living being so horrendous here and being stuffed up by a weakening pound exchange rate we are now working harder and longer hours than we did in the UK!
Im lucky in that I work for myself at home so if I get a bad night at least I don't have to be all perky in the office the next morning, however, the main part of the job is long hours and on feet all day with no chance of resting so I dread having a bad night before on of those work days.
Well I had better get to bed, at the moment I dread going because I'm sleeping so bad at the moment. I was sleeping beautifully before the doc pulled me off the hrt, now that's turned into a vicious circle!!!
Just started the nightly flushes, so here we go again! So over it as they say!!!!