Hi Taz,
yes, I know that feeling when a new period is on its way and the hot flushes completely disappear. Luckily, that is not the case with me at the moment. The hot flushes have disappeared 90% or something. If I get upset I still get a bit of heat creeping up my back.
About the fact that symptoms should peak after 2 years: Please do not tell yourself that - there is no rule how symptoms develop - every woman is different and to think negatively like this is not likely to make you feel better. Many experts say that that symptoms should have subsided 12 months after your last period. Others say that only a very small minority suffer longer than a few months. CHOSE to think positive - that is what I try to do.
I will continue to try every idea that comes my way to get better: I have still lined up: molasses, sauna, alkalising the body, detoxing, alfalfa, gomasio and I have not even touched any herbs. I am sure I will continue to get better as I have in the last months.
The good thing about trying all these natural remedies to get rid of your hot flushes is that they are all good for your general health and are equally effective to ward of cancer and heart disease. For that reason I do not mind to spend the time and effort of reasearch and try them.
I am certainly not one who does not try things out of fear to be disappointed. Obviously, not everything works or works only for a short time. But then you try the next thing....and the next....and the next. And eventually you hit the problem on the head. That is what I do with all my various health problems and now with the internet we have so many ressources that I am usually successful.
All the best,
Corinna