Morning ladies, I am feeling a bit down today & was hoping for some honest advice as to whether I am being overly sensitive, and to tell me to get a grip.
So I am an over thinker, always have been & a big worrier, my mom was the same, she would worry about us non stop even when she was in her 90s she would still worry about her children, I am exactly the same.
My daughter has recently moved out of home into her own little place which is lovely for her. I have been helping her with settling in and some meals and unpacking boxes etc, she was a bit tearful at first but very excited, it was just all a bit overwhelming. I was with her till late night last week and left to drive home in the dark. My daughter saw us off and walked us down to her garden gate, she has very few street lights in the area she lives in so it is really dark at night. I had a friend with and I commented to my friend that I am worried that between walking up from her garden gate to her cottage she trips or something happens and she falls over and hits her head and lies there all night. It was what was on my mind at the time and I was silly enough to vocalise it. This person proceeded to tell me how pathetic I am and repeated the words pathetic over and over and said how can you be so ridiculous, you need help. Only old people fall over or drunk people and she is neither so basically told me to get a grip. I did call daughter to find out if she was safely in her cottage and had locked up for the night, but I felt really hurt at the friends reaction. Please tell me if I am being silly and overly sensitive, that I can give myself a right royal talking to.
I know it sounds silly now but at the time, I was stressing about that situation and I felt my friend was a bit harsh, but perhaps, its me who is being ridiculous about it.