I can completely empathize with your current state. I never believed that anything could ever be this bad!!! I have had a lot of physical symptoms, but I can cope with those, but the mental symptoms are so debilitating.
The hardest part for me is never knowing how I am going to feel from one moment to the next. On Saturday, I felt so depressed with weird thoughts swirling through my mind. I tried deep breathing, fighting the thoughts, being with the thoughts, but nothing could shift them. Then, I could feel everything trying to lift in the afternoon. By the evening, I was happy having dinner with my partner and then watching a movie. I feel like two totally different people.
Reading women's messages here really helps, though, because it makes me understand that I am not the only one, and it also confirms what I have: the menopause:(
Stay strong, reach out, and know that one day you will be looking at all of this through the rear view mirror.
Hugs,
Bevey xo