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CLKD

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Re: Why is my life so rubbish - fed up with life in general!
« Reply #30 on: August 29, 2019, 07:01:04 PM »

I haven't had a good curse yet today  ;D
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jillydoll

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Re: Why is my life so rubbish - fed up with life in general!
« Reply #31 on: August 29, 2019, 08:29:14 PM »

Ohhhhh, I definitely have! 😬
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Ladybt28

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Re: Why is my life so rubbish - fed up with life in general!
« Reply #32 on: August 30, 2019, 12:09:56 AM »

❤️❤️❤️ You are all just so lovely!

Sharing and shifting...is brilliant jmargaret   Birdy- behave yourself!  Luv Ya Too JD x
CKLD - you shouldn't be thinking about MPD just before you go to sleep  :-\  think about ice cream, or buns, or hedgehogs but not MPD that's for sure!  (the problem with that disorder or as in OH who is borderline, the person "is" who are they are at any given moment and will present with that "persons" characteristics.  The Health professional or the finder etc doesn't know that what they see before them is not the "norm"!..... anyway, that subject is far too heavy duty for bedtime reading!
and JayJay…..sorry you feel that way...urgh...I didn't even think really about what I was writing it was just instinctive.

Let's just say, I have crashed completely and had a duvet day! based on the assumption that if I don't fight "it" glve in and write off the day, I will wake up tomorrow being able to pick up where I was or at least back on the right path...well I hope so anyway.  I feel achey and buggy so that might have contributed. Will report in tomorrow xx
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Re: Why is my life so rubbish - fed up with life in general!
« Reply #33 on: August 30, 2019, 06:49:51 AM »

Morning!  I think of weird and strange things in the night especially when alseep  :D
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Re: Why is my life so rubbish - fed up with life in general!
« Reply #34 on: August 30, 2019, 09:54:13 AM »

Just wanted to say that sometimes ' faking it' is a good short term strategy.
I got through my wedding by channeling Audrey Hepburn. My husband broke down in tears
three times and couldn't complete his vows (He is the strong Yorkshire non emotional type!)
I (The wobbly, anxious Midlander type) - thought I wouldn't be able to do mine I was so upset for him.
So I pretended I was Audrey Hepburn for some bizarre reason and I will just filming a wedding.
And I got through the wedding without totally loosing it!

Strangely enough my very nervous, emotional, shy son has to do a presentation today in front of his
school in his prefect/team leader elections. He is terrified.  So he is going to pretend he is Paddy
McGuiness. He did a read through last night in Paddy McGuiness mode and the difference was amazing.

Maybe not a life long strategy for good living though, but certainly one for a short term coping boost.
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Re: Why is my life so rubbish - fed up with life in general!
« Reply #35 on: August 30, 2019, 01:14:09 PM »

Hi Ladybt - I have only just seen this thread as I pop in and out and don't read all the threads.

I really can't offer any words of advice as your situation is beyond my experience, understanding and expertise but just to say you have been amazing generously giving advice to other women on here and especially when you yourself are going through so much.

So here's a  :bighug:

Take care

Hurdity xx
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jillydoll

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Re: Why is my life so rubbish - fed up with life in general!
« Reply #36 on: August 30, 2019, 01:35:54 PM »

I often pretend to be ME.....in the hope I will re-emerge! 🤷‍♀️. 😉
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