Sammiejo, I changed from from Vagifem to Ovestin, for the same reason as you, because I worried about hair loss, but I didn''t use them very often, but my hair was still shedding up to recently, but now more thinning, the ovestin doesn't last long though,had to get another tube already
Also regarding the wetness,i don't think the ovestin gets to where it should, not high enough as the applicator is very weak and it's easy to let the cream come out of it too soon, it slides too fast if you know what I mean,so leaks out again