I remember my grandad going to see the GP becasue he was struggling with his golf game (in his late 70s)
He said he was having a problem with his knee - the GP said "Well Mr Mac, you have to expect some wear & tear at your age" My grandad replied "well the other one is the same age and it's fine....." so a referral to a specialist
It's different for men!
Every appointment is a battlefield!