Hi all,
I've not posted before but wondered if there might be someone out there who is having a similar experience to me.
In June this year I got the doctor to do a test and it revealed I have primary ovarian failure. My partner and I had begun the fertility process in January this year and a series of set backs occurred making that impossible. I also lost my dad last year and his anniversary in March hit me really hard. My partner and I went through a really bad patch amongst it all. With all that going on, and (unbeknownst to me) my hormones all over the place, I wasn't sleeping or eating and was having several anxiety attacks a day.
By July I had had a nervous breakdown. I had time off work, went onto anxiety medication (which I'd previously been on for over 15 years as I have generalised anxiety disorder) and recovered a little over the summer. I saw a gynaecologist and discussed HRT but don't feel ready to make that decision yet as it's going to mean a lot of years on another medication.
I'm eating and sleeping better, having no anxiety attacks and am feeling generally less on the edge. But I have this constant empty feeling. I guess it's probably a general depression: I have no motivation to do anything (although I'm making myself), I don't want to be around anyone, I have no desires or positive emotions. I feel completely dead inside.
The logical side of me says it's inevitable after the last few months. I also wonder how much is my hormones? I just don't feel like myself at all. I've struggled with anxiety for so many years but I haven't been depressed for a long time. I guess I need to speak to my doctor about it. I have a terrible habit of saying everything's fine when it's really not.
Does this sound familiar to anyone?