Hi Huridty
Thanks for your reply.  I'm not sure what the GP thinks - however she is usually good.   I;ve contacted Dr.Currie for a second opinion.  The flushes are nothing like I have ever known - it's like a comedy programme where water just springs out. - I tried to go for a walk today as we are on holiday and it was impossible - drenched within moments, and I had to turn back for a change of clothing - so embarrassing.    It's only when I exercise, the rest of the time I don't get sweaty but the slightest thing which involves an increased heart rate sets me off.  No pattern that I can recognise.
Unfortunately coils and I are not comparable - tried 2 (12 years apart) and both times ended up with rejection (both removed under emergency procedures) and PID followed both times - the coil was recommended as a result of the adenomyosis,  it just made things much worse and I had a lot of investigation work done last year to check there was nothing sinister .  I seem to have been tested for everything else, and full set of bloods done recently showed everything was fine - did not test hormones as on HRT.  I am progesterone intolerant, so went for the Femonston 2/10 as it seemed to be a good choice and high oestrogen - been in it for 5 years and it's been a life saver, thanks to Dr. Currie.  My GPS are actually really good and want to help, but I think we are all a bit stuck
My periods have really slowed down in the last 12 Months and I get one or two days of heavy bleed then nothing,  but I seem to have most of the symptoms most of the time, and very bloated tummy and tender, and tired and achy most of the time. Think the GP probably thought I had excess oestrogen - but then the ongoing vaginal dryness would not support that theory.  
Not sure if any of that explains  - but it does feel a bit grim right now  
