I'm 7 years postmenopause & found early in peri that tolerance of alcohol suddenly completely changed, to the extent that just one glass of wine made me feel unwell - often with the worst of the reaction delayed, so that an early evening glass meant a very bad night would follow. Has continued to be very, very bad for flushing, night sweats & insomnia & like Foxylady I've now (reluctantly) given up alcohol altogether. Can't say I don't miss it, but I need to do all I can to be well & can live without it. Being alcohol-free also reduces risk of breast cancer, so if we feel we have to take that step, that's something positive to think of when we're missing a glass of wine!