Hi yorkslass

I presume your periods were irregular and your cycle longer than the usual 4 weeks some of the time before you started HRT?
I agree with what Perinowpost says about ADs and libido, as well as the testosterone and HRT.
I can see why your consultant says there seems to be a bandwagon - but it is because the 2015 NICE Guidelines made provision for T to be prescribed for women on HRT who still had low libido but because there is no product on the market currently licesned for women we get prescribed T desgined for men and there seems to be a lot of guesswork re doses. Also there is precious little research into it - long term - at different doses and with different formualtions of HRT so some gynaes are naturally cautious.
That is not to say it is not effective and for many women it provides the missing link that conventional HRT alone does not provide.
Incidentally tablet HRT can also depress libido - so to give your libido any sort of chance you should be on transdermal HRT and not on anti-depressants (and maybe other medication also dpresses libido). Obviously any essential medication has to be continued!
As for the pyschosexual counselling - pah! Of course it will appear pyschological - your natural sexual response is not working because your hormones ( and maybe some meds) just don't work - it's enough to put anyone off!! If you want to talk more about this then perhpas this post would be better in prviate lives - Emma could move it for you?
Also if you have any vaginal dryness or itching you should ask for something like Vagifem or Ovestin or Estriol cream to fend off vaginal atrophy and increase lubrication. There are also products to try - moisturisers etc if necessaey ( I don;t know about these).
Hurdity x