Hi and welcome to MM Sukhi42 - what a tough time you have had. It's dreadful that so many of these gynaecologists don't seem to understand what you are going through and are unable to help.
I am surprised that they removed your ovaries and did not offer a full hysterectomy!!! Surely if you have uterine pain then removing the uterus would have solved the problem!!!
I found this link that may be useful for you to read:
https://www.guysandstthomas.nhs.uk/resources/patient-information/gynaecology/adenomyosis.pdfI think the normal combined HRTs may well be aggravating your problem and if you had a hysterectomy you would only need oestrogen - while you have you uterus you need combined HRT which involves progesterone and possible bleeds - oestrogen alone will protect your bones and heart for the long term.
Are you in your early 40s? If so, you do need HRT, especially if your bones are in trouble. Have any of the gynaecologists suggested you have a Mirena? A Mirena could control and will usually stop any bleeding and you can then use oestrogen as gel or patch alongside. AS you haven't had children you may need an anaesthetic to have it fitted but it could be worth considering.
When you see this new gynaecologist: Write down all the your symptoms, outline the treatment you've had so far, your experience with HRT and your questions and show this to the specialist as this may help to make the appointment less stressful. Ask if a Mirnea is an option or whether a hysterectomy would be advisable? Tell them you are concerned about your bones and that urogenital atrophy has been a real problem. The Vagifem may be helping the urogenital atrophy but you may need systemic oestrogen alongside to truly control with the urogenital atrophy.
Let us know how you get on. DG x