Hello ladies
Just thought I give an update following all your helpful advice.
I took the Actigel straight away for five days and it made a huge difference, I felt a lot more comfortable and the discharge stopped. I have just finished the two week reload of the estriol cream. I have noticed that although I wake up at night with the dreaded hot flushes, I am no longer dying to go for a wee and can go through a whole night without so am assuming the VA was really irritating my bladder and the cream is doing its job.
I will now revert to the cream twice a week interspersed with some 'Yes' vaginal moisturiser and see how I go. Have not attempted sex in last few weeks - too messy with all that cream ,

( sorry if tmi) but hopefully when I do it'll be a lot more comfortable. I'll let you know!
CKLD I am also eating live yogurt as you suggested to help keep everything in balance- although I'm only eating it, can't face putting it anywhere else

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Thank you so much ladies for your support
W xxx