CLKD I have mentioned this in your GP post without realising this is here , it is my biggest fear VA and care , I NO it's brushed aside / not serious enough in nursing homes.
My daughters will be my voice of that I have been assured , but I have opinions for end of life and it's not propped up in a chair all day with a burning / splitting vulva , bladder infections are so common in care homes especially amongst women almost the norm. My children are adamant I won't go into a home , but it's not there job , but they are adamant it is.
I went for counselling yesterday first time ever , and one of my biggest worries is this problem VA and old age , and TBH the talk I went to in June with “ experts “ my mind to the attitude towards VA was not put at ease.