Hi V29boo
Strictly speaking you do have to start counting again yes - but if you do bleed again and you are worried then do consult the doctor. Does it really matter where you are in terms of definition? It's how you feel that is important and that doesn't sound to be very good.....ie you seem to be suffering.
You haven't said how old you are but you do sound like a prime candidate for HRT! I would also go to the doc to get checked out at this point for other conditions eg thyroid problems - which can cause dry skin (and fatigue, weight gain).
Weight gain is not necessary with HRT - I weigh less than I did when peri-menopausal (and have been on HRT for 10 + years) - but this needs a shift in focus - change in diet (permanently) and increase in exercise (permanently) as well as reduction in alcohol consumption. You have to work at it!
Do you also suffer from flushes or sweats - or maybe you take other medication which masks these?
Read up as much as you can using the top tabs - there is such a lot of information on this site, and aks any more questions and we'll see if we can help!
Hurdity x