I usually find looking at the practise lists, qualifications and number of women on the websites is a start.
Unfortunately for me the only practice that would take me on was the local village one. It has one part time female doctor, one who used to work in a field a million miles away from anything meno and has said he does not do women's stuff and a new one who was a partner elsewhere and likes to be an all-rounder. And a prescribing nurse a bit older than me. Its demographic is such that expect a lot of hrt is prescribed, though

I saw the website of someone who went to school with me and would probably not touch a woman with a barge pole given the chance. All the menopause stuff is delegated to the nurse's clinic and he seems to be busy with the business side, taking over running other practices/clinics.