Hi! I've taken ADs for years (since 1988) and had to discard any that made me feel poorly until my GP found a few that really suit. Not a cure but they do allow me to get out of bed each morning. This particular drug has served me well and I don't remember any odd symptoms when I first started it, over 10 years ago. I take 5mg in the morning and 10 at night, my GP allows me to self medicate dependant on how bad the depression is.
Sometimes, even if a person knows that the low mood/depression/anxiety is hormone led, they need to try an AD initially to allow them to see the wood for the trees. I would suggest that you keep a mood/food/symptom diary to chart how you are feeling, making lists focusses that we actually do survive!
Browse round the Forum. Make notes. Some GPs feel that unless a lady isn't having periods and/or hot flushes, she isn't in menopause

. He/she should request hormone tests including thyroid function and VitD levels.
Take a list of queries to the Consultant should your GP refer you re hysterectomy advice, remember: you don't have to make an immediate decision regardless of what the Consultant suggests. Many dismiss their patients after surgery without any discussion about HRT requirements!
If you are still having periods you will need certain types of HRT medication. You may find that an AD is enough unless you opt for hysterectomy.
I don't understand "prostap"

Let us know how you get on!