ladyunlaoised glad you went to doc and got a sympathetic ear, I find the xanax a great comfort, I actually break it in half and it works quite quickly which is an added bonus. I only have to take it now and again so I can't see myself becoming reliant on it. I too have a great doc, she really listens. hope your move goes smoothly and as I live in Ireland too and although thankfully I'm happily married I know from friends experience how slow and messy divorce can be here. Sending you hugs and best wishes x