The OBGYN is quite correct. Mine won't do hormone blood tests either because symptoms should be enough to begin treatment. Due to hormones altering all the while throughout 24 hours unless the blood is drawn at the 'correct' time of the month, they may not show a true reading

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What type of 'specialists' is your doctor - is that a GP? - sending you to and for what symptoms? Do take a list of worries to each appt., as well as keeping a mood/food/symptom diary to charge progress. Certainly I had various PMT symptoms which stopped once the bleed began. This time of Life is known as The Change for many reasons

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Did you have suicidal thoughts during your menstruating years? I would get depressed. Very tearful which would stop once the bleed began. R these feelings something you can live with as you know that they pass once you begin bleeding? If not you need to discuss these with your GP. I have beta-blockas to ease the anxiety surges as well as an emergency 'as necessary' tablet for when the anxiety floors me.
I found that not taking medication too close to bed time helped ease reflux. Even a drink of tea can cause it ....... sleeping with lots of pillows is necessary occasionally.