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[CLKD]

? until the next time ?

[dulciana]

It's really not helpful to think like that, CLKD.  In any case, we've agreed a solution to "next time".   Family relations are too important to let cynicism get in the way.

[Elizabethrose]

Glad all resolved dulciana, cubagirl is right on so many counts. I don't think they 'get' it and maybe it is impossible to understand until you are a parent. We ride through every experience with them, dipping in to support when needed.

[CLKD]

Glad that you have discussed options if she has further problems  .  Communication is important!

[dulciana]

Thanks, everyone.
 

[Suzi Q]

Im afraid i do one of 2 things go off my tree at my son i even told him to find his b...
Or i tell hiscDad to see to h8m. Its always been the same.  I say something son goes off
Dad says something abd its yes Dad no Dad 3 bags full Dad he maybe 40.
But to our son his Dad walks on water. In saying that son phones me twice a day 6 days a week. Ive had problems with him. Drinking sex fights bad ones.  But we just got through it
I mean in the end unlike me or his Dad he still has us here. Good luck mums x

[dulciana]

I've got her to understand that this is all down to me being anxious and not her being unbalanced (as she seemed to think).  She's just phoned to say she'd like to come up for my birthday in three weeks' time.  I'm forgiven.   

[Ju Ju]

Dulciana, your anxiety is the normal concern of a loving, caring parent and your daughter is not unbalanced! Stop judging yourselves! You are fine just as you are. In fact, more than fine if you are a Pisces! My birthday is in 2 weeks! Aren't we supposed to be creative, sensitive and empathetic?

[Woodlands]

Dulciana ..

You have done great honey.......normal worry for us mum's.
My DD sadly says she doesn't need or want me in her life just now......she's 19 in June....sadly I know it's the drugs she's taking- my door is always ajar but I have to stay whole myself too. I too am a piscean with my birthday on the 12th........
All the best
Woodlands x

[Ju Ju]

Virtual party?

[babyjane]

Virtual party?

Oh yeah, I am 60 in 2 weeks time and our daughter is organising everything, bless her 

[dulciana]

Virtual party?

Great idea, Ju Ju!  Mine's the 11th.   

[Woodlands]

Absolutely........virtual party.
Interesting.....my DD with all her needs got in touch yesterday........her dad and I are both piscean so perhaps it's the month ahead she has me in mind.
Lol as he was my toy boy he is 50 this time and will hate it xxx

[Ju Ju]

Mines the 8th. Perhaps celebrate the whole month!  I've got a pulmonary lung function test in the afternoon and can't shift it  , so I'm having an official birthday on the 9th! March is party month!

[babyjane]

totally, it is our daughter's birthday, our grandson's and the dog's in March too