Ah yes! To clarify, Dancinggirl, I am in the US. We don't have tibolone/livial available yet, though it sounds like it's not quite what I'd need yet.
I'm 42, went into surgical meno/POF after a single ovary was removed when I was 38. I spent 2 years on estradiol patch + oral progesterone (utrogestan/prometrium) + local estrogen (Vagifem and Estrace cream), continuous, and I experimented a little too much with the patch and progesterone doses, and the fluctuations (I think?) caused a *ton* of ongoing hair loss. The estrogen patch caused bleeding and cramps from adenomyosis in my uterine wall. I am coming off a 1-month break to see if my remaining ovary might revive itself (it's alive, but isn't ovulating). It's totally down for the count. So, I am restarting my hunt for an HRT regimen that might work better for me.
So it's interesting that it's private GPs in the UK who experiment with "off-label" vaginal progesterone use. I couldn't wait a whole week for my specialist appointment, so I cut a patch and went on 0.05mg estradiol and am taking 200mg progesterone vaginally this week, just until I get to the doctor, where I guess I'll decide whether I will try a Mirena and a patch.
What I meant about the gel is that every single doctor I've seen for my HRT treatment (oh, many now)... nobody even mentions gel as an option. I don't know anyone using it. At least where I live in the US, doctors are pushing the patch. So I am going to ask about gel, too.
Thanks so much!