hi Louby Lou. Gosh I was in exactly the same boat (minus the new relationship
)
My story could be yours: years of awful periods, getting more and more unwell - thryoid unbalanced too. Anaemic etc hair loss.
I too got to the 'end of the road' as it were last year - after having tried the whole shebang, norisitherone (yuck!) then Esmya (more yuck) then waiting for an ablation that was pointless and never happened (as fibroids made womb too wonky)
So... I plumped for the total hysterectomy and ovary removal. here's where our stories differ as my mum died from ovarian cancer (following a similar story with fibroids hysterectomy etc)...
Yes, it's been challenging and the hair loss did get worse after the op - last June..
It's getting easier and now I'm trying a different sort of HRT (Tibolone) I think there might be hope..
I would say, if there is no cancer history etc then keep your ovaries and let yourself slide into menopause gradually and take hormones if you need them. In retrospect i would have done this rather than go dramatically into surgical meno...
there are lots of very helpful people on this forum and you will get lots of support so feel free to post any questions..
I had vaginal surgery which does have a better recovery time, but i think I underestimated the emotional upheaval and then on top of that the hormone crash.. I didn't have much HRT after the op - as can't tolerate oestrogen only - and felt terrible!
Hope you can make the right decision for you..
Abby xx