Hi supernan05

I am a bit confused too - I think because of your GP!! It doesn't sound like a second menopause to me from what you've said

Firstly you were given oestrogen as you should have been, following your op. Not sure why this was stopped as you still hadn't reached the natural age of menopause?

. You have said your sweats have been worsening - which would be expected as you have stopped HRT - and for some women symptoms continue to worsen following menopause (or cessation of HRT following menopause)
What I don't understand is your doc starting you on HRT now, because you are the natural age for menopause. This is bunkum! You should have been on it at least until the natural age of menopause (which is 51/52) and then you could choose to stop or conrtinue if you wanted - although most women would continue beyond this, if still getting symptoms! So yes - do start the oestrogel and make up for those missing years! You might want to consider testosterone too - but depends on whether you have symptoms of low T?
I would say - just start that gel and you should feel better very soon

Hurdity x