Hello everyone. Right now, I´m not sure which is better, with or without HRT. This new treatment with Oestrogel + Utrogestan is better but just in the sense that I don´t have breakthrough bleeding for so many days in the cycle (along with severe period symptoms). But I do feel a lot more tired, sleepy and zoombi daily. No energy whatsoever, so I feel like having 40% or less of my physical and mental capability than before. I don´t have one day when I feel alert anymore. In the mornings, I need to wake up early to prepare and take my kids to school and I´ve been finding it extremely difficult to get into the rhythm needed. Plus playing with them and doing what needs to be done with kids and house routine. I´m not working right now and I can´t imagine me coping with work/home routines if I was. That is a major problem, because I want to go back to work. How do you all cope with work/kids and menopause? Plus no one in my circle is going through any of this, so I´ve been finding it hard, as they all seem to have loads more physical and mental energy than me. I exercise, I believe I eat well, although not perfectly. I take Utrogestan orally. To take it vaginally would be an inconvenient for me. How can you function when you have ups and downs with HRT so often? I think I´ll wait 6 weeks only, then, to take the Utrogestan again, instead of 8 weeks, as per your suggestion. I´d like to take it as far apart as possible, as taking it 12 days a month means 12 days of bad symptoms than maybe 10 going back to normal, than normal for only a few days than 12 days having bad symptoms again. How can you live like this. Plus to think that I won´t ever go back to my previous energy level is just terrible. Right now I feel like having someone carrying me all the time. Do you think it could be due to the low Oestrogel dose?? If I increase it, am I likely to feel more energetic? I don´t feel any hot flushed with the doses I´m taking (1 pump and 1/4), but I don´t sleep well and I´m always very tired (meaning exhausted).