Thank you. I have studied the chart several times over the last few years. My cycles were becoming a bit shorter but regular and I thought I was in the -3a late reproductive stage, which seemed about right for my age. I left it at that until the recent strange bleeding which resulted in a high FSH blood test and preliminary diagnosis of menopause.
I seemed to skip the -2 phase of shifting lengths between cycles of >7 days which is indicated to last 2-3 years. My GP had not asked any questions about synptoms or cycle changes when de said high FSH = menopause. I am still befuddled by my situation and try not to think about it to be honest and just get on with it. Every women is different but my doctors aren't interested in explaining or engaging in my personal experience.
I went to the GP again last week and he still says none of my vague symptoms are menopause related and the menopause is a seperate thing going on (?) I said is it usual to have no symptoms and he then deemed my sensitive, red, warm face issues as hot flushes, so it's likely the menopause. He said I might expect another few periods over the year.
So, the story continues. 2 days after seeing him a period started, nearly 60 days since the last which puts me in the late perimenopause section on the chart referenced. For some reason that is reassuring, ha, that I am following some sort of 'norm'. I have another FSH test tomorrow and will be interested to see what it is. Technically it will be day 3 of my 'cycle' which I read is ideal, the last one was taken just before I was expecting a period, which never came.
The schoolgirl in me hopes the FSH is lower, not to deny I am in perimenopause but to prove my GP wrong on making a sweeping diagnosis. If he's proved right, I will have to concede to his 'wisdom', but never to his lack of ability to educate or communicate
My periods have definitely changed, thinner and I told him this, he said nothing, but reading things I understand thus is a sign of imbalance with the thickening and thinning process. So despite regular cycles and few typical menopausal symptoms, the quality of my period seems to have been my major 'sign' had I realised at the time. A simple change in 'thickness' really.
The body has a mind of its own