Thanks for all the replies and tips! Suzi Q, What a nightmare!

How are you doing now, at least has it eased the dryness and pain?
and I diiiiiiid get to see a young male doctor

at my gp's he's in his thirties

he prescribed Ovestin for 3 weeks every day and twice or three times a week from then on as long as I need it

I couldn't believe it when he was more concerned and explained everything better than in the meno clinic. I checked him out when I got home and he's done training and an exam in the Royal Collage of Gynaecologists and Obstetricians and he's interested in woman's health so that is great! not going back to the meno clinic!
So after that last week I'm a slightly happierbun

xxx
PS: Sorry for taking so long to reply, I was on holiday!