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Fiona Leel

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Premature meopause
« on: August 15, 2016, 09:55:49 PM »

Hello all,
I have been blessed with the delight of an early menopause.  Currently 37, I was finally diagnosed at 34 after around 4 years of not knowing what the hell was happening to me!  Still not settled on an HRT which suits me.  Suffering with zero libido, low energy, skin problems, bladder issues, achy joints and list goes on...  :'(
Anyone else in my boat??
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Annie0710

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Re: Premature meopause
« Reply #1 on: August 15, 2016, 10:19:46 PM »

Hi I suffered ovarian failure at 32, 6 months after my hysterectomy, so it wasn't natural, first tablet I was given worked a treat, went up in dosage after 2 weeks but everything was fine until age 45 when I was shocked to be told I was in peri on my 2nd menopause !

First time round was so long ago it's hard to remember the symptoms but definitely horrific night sweats, dry skin, vaginal dryness etc

2nd menopause has absolutely floored me, physically and emotionally and I'm nowhere near where I want to be healthwise

You need oestrogen at your age and unbeknown to me I should've been tested for testosterone levels too but was refused the few occasions I asked.  I'm due a test next month as my joints feel like they're in bits and bad muscle weakness

I'm sure they'll be some ladies along soon who are in a more similar situation to you

Annie X
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Freckles

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Re: Premature meopause
« Reply #2 on: August 16, 2016, 01:09:31 AM »

Hi Annie

Welcome to MM!

Read lots of earlier posts and comments  to help get a general idea of the current information re HRT.
Your symptoms are really common and can be significantly helped by daily continuous oestrogen gel  i.e. Oestrogel (transdermal gels or patches are a much safer and more effective HRT compared to oral/tablet HRT), a very small dose of daily Testim gel  (testosterone) and a short dose of micronised of progesterone (Utrogestan) at 100 mgs daily for 7 days.
I had all the symptoms you have.  My GP said I was too old at 55 (!) to up my crap tablets HRT (Femoston 1/10) and offered me anti-depressants, which I didn't want as I knew my problems were hormonal in origin, which subsequently proved correct (I had incredibly low oestrogen levels despite being on Femoston, plus the progesterone aspect  of Femoston really adversely affected me)

So AD's wouldn't work  for me and I didn't want to spend the last third of my life as an anxious walking zombie, semi bald, my own beard and eyes like two dead oysters.  I'd quite like a date before I die.

Long story short, paid £300 to see Prof. Studd privately, was prescribed his treatment regime (see above) back in April this year.

Since then, my aches, pains, low mood, crap skin, loss of libido, VA,  etc., etc., have all gone and I feel better than I have done for years, compared with oral HRT.
I can only suggest that like me (and I was a real numpty re info about HRT before I decided to do something about my hormonal problems as my GP was clearly not interested in helping me) you read the posts on here, get as much info as possible and then go back armed to your GP with the right and up to date information re HRT?

Deffo transdermal options for oestrogen and testosterone (gels, patches or implants) are the preferred clinically proven option, as they are a much  safer and far more effective option to use, as compared to the oral (tablet) forms.   
Why any medic would suggest using oral forms of these forms of HRT is debatable, other than a) ignorance, b) it's a bit (but not much) cheaper and c) a belief that that the "one size fits all" of the current  NHS guidelines is appropriate.  It's not. Women vary, so HRT should be given at the right hormones, at the right dosage and in the right format.
So if you can read previous posts on MM - there is plenty of information in different threads- you will get an idea of current views.
But I can recommend getting the HRT transdermal gels, plus micronised progesterone for 7 days at 100mg a month. The latter is  lower than the NHS recommends but you still get the necessary monthly withdrawal bleed but without the horrible side effects you can get on the NHS regime and which puts a lot of women off from continuing with a HRT regime and all the very many positive benefits it gives when appropriately prescribed.
In the last four months since I've been on the regime, I have found it life changing. Plus I get it prescribed on the NHS via my GP.   
So read around on MM first and come back with more questions if you have them?
Freckles x
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Dancinggirl

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Re: Premature meopause
« Reply #3 on: August 16, 2016, 08:56:29 AM »

Hi and welcome to MM Fifi 79
I had a premature meno in my 30s - been on and off HRT for around 25 years.  Now 60, I'm now just using local vaginal oestrogen to keep bladder and 'lady bit's healthy.
It is trial and error finding the HRT that suits - as others have said oestrogen as gel or patch ended up my best option but progesterone was always an issues for me - I've tried jstu about very thing going.  At one stage I had a Mirena for 4 years that proved my best option at the time - then tried Utrogestan (which is hailed as the best to use) however I got problematic bleeding and strong sedation using this.
Do tell us what HRTs you have tried so far and I can hopefully then suggest a regime you could try - I have tried just about everything so can speak with first hand experience. You shouldn't need to see a gynae privately - you just need to get clued up and ask fort the right thing.  It's important at your age you have HRT to protect your heart and bones and at least you have had good advice on that front so far.  I'm sure we on MM can help you find a solution.
Doo look under TREATMENTs at the top of this page to see your options. 
Keep posting  DG x
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Cassie

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Re: Premature meopause
« Reply #4 on: August 16, 2016, 10:27:10 AM »

Welcome I also went through it just before 40. The gel and utrogestan were and still are my live saver, give them a try, they are bio identical and will make you feel so much better, you need oestrogen, you are too young to be without.
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Hurdity

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Re: Premature meopause
« Reply #5 on: August 16, 2016, 04:37:19 PM »

Hello Fifi79

 :welcomemm: from me too!

Sorry to hear about your premature menopause.

I agree you should not need to see a private gynae and at your young age you should be seeing an NHS gynaecologist regularly as you do need HRT as you are already aware.

I had a normal menopause so can't help there - probably best to take advice from those who have, although I have happily used Estradot patches and micronised progesterone (Utrogestan) for several years, and a different progesterone before that. I also take mine on a cycle because I wouldn't want to take progesterone all the time - but the licensed dose is 12 days per cycle.

You may also need testosterone although a medium/high dose of oestrogen may well make you feel much better overall.

Hurdity x
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Fiona Leel

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Re: Premature meopause
« Reply #6 on: August 16, 2016, 10:41:39 PM »

Fantastic advice everyone, thank you so much. It's nice to have others I can speak to about this stuff as although my friends are great, they obviously don't understand yet. I'll have a good look through all the information on here and be armed when I see my new Dr next week. Ta muchly x
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Melissa

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Re: Premature meopause
« Reply #7 on: August 18, 2016, 09:23:08 AM »

I'm 45 and believe my menopause started 5 years ago but was finally diagnosed last year after lots of symptoms were overlooked. I was told I would need to be on HRT for about 10 years which, having done my research I agree on, but I'm now going to pay to see someone privately to help me work out which HRT regime I need as I have zero libido, headaches, am low in mood etc. The HRT has gotten rid of my hot flushes but it has also made me put on about a stone in weight in a month. I'm taking oral HRT and, until I read the posts on this forum, I had no idea that this is probably the least appropriate regime for me. I now think my testosterone levels are too low and, just the same as I saw a specialist when I needed a knee operation, I believe I need to see a specialist for my menopause. Read as many threads on here as you can as they are so informative and have made me realise that, given I HAVE to be on HRT I might as well find a regime that makes me feel like me again.
Good luck and, most importantly of all, you're not on your own with how you feel...
xx
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