saffy123 - you can't know whether the Oestrogel is working if you haven't had a blood test done to look at what your oestrogen levels are - you may find your oestrogen levels are good. If you were getting flushes and sweats then you would be able to tell if the gel was working or not - if the gel wasn't absorbing then you would still have flushes - but if you trying to control PMT then this will not depend on oestrogen levels specifically but on several factors. PMT would be more related to progesterone I think however the added oestrogen wouldn't stimulate progesterone - if you aren't taking any progesterone then I'm baffled as to why you are getting regular bleeds!!! If your periods were always erratic and you are still just getting erratic bleeding then this could be down to your womb lining building up and simply breaking away at odd times - this isn't good as there could still be an abnormal thickness. I assume you are under the supervision of a specialist gynae? I do think you need to discuss you options with them as all this oestrogen without real benefits may not be the best way forward.
In my experience too high amount of oestrogen in the peri stage can make things worse. In my peri stage, from the age of 36 to my early 40s, I found that one pump of gel per day kept all symptoms under control - I only increased at the age of 44 because my body needed more oestrogen by that stage.
I do think you need a reassessment - all this chopping and changing won't be good. DG x
Hi dancinggirl Yes I am under a menopause specialist...but I'm just waiting to see her on the NHS, was seeing her privately, but just haven't the money at the moment. She has already said I am not a straight forward case as one of my first symptoms was VA and bladder issues, apparently not normally seen until later in the whole peri journey. Her thoughts are that my ovaries have never really worked well hence the 45 - 55 day cycles....she was baffled thou how I managed to have kiddies with no problems!
Re progesterone...she was happy for me not to add any providing I had a bleed at least every 3 months.
I am amazed that all your symptoms were kept in check just using 1 pump of gel, goodness maybe I am a freak. I am going to start saving my pennies as I don't think I will ever get my nhs appointment....been waiting months already. Thank you for your thoughts, I will question the womb lining when I see her....goodness I hope it isn't abnormally thick. Will get those bloods looked at as well xx