Yes, I thought that would need to be the case. But hopefully, you share joy and love.
I think in hindsight my FIL was on the autism spectrum. My MIL was frustrated with him, though she did care for him. He was a good, intelligent man. When she was ill, she desperately wanted expressions of love. He undoubtedly cared for her, but didn't express it and when she died, he was devastated. None of us quite connected with him. It was if we were all on a different wavelength, close, but not quite close enough. You had to be very literal with him. Humour passed him by. I wonder whether a diagnosis of AS would have helped everyone else to understand. Very sad.