Hi there vj

from me too!
Dancinggirl has already given you very good advice but unfortunately your doctor is no help whatsoever!
That is absolute rubbish - doing it naturally - how very dare she (when you have asked about HRT)? Evening Primrose and vitamins?
Please please do carry on with the Femoston for a while yet - and what a shame you did not get a different preparation. Dancinggirl's suggestion was great re the sequential HRT and a higher dose. A week is no time at all to get used to it - well tablet HRT anyway. Next time please go back to the original doc and in the meantime read up as much as you can about menopause and HRT.
Re vitamins etc - of course - it would be very good advice if she would tell you to look at your lifestyle and diet and see if there are any changes that you could make as you enter this next, long phase of your life. So - get as many nutrients as you can from your food (rather than supplements) - cooked from a variety of fresh ingredients, cut down sugar, refined carbs and processed foods, take lots of exercise, lose weight if you need to, stop smoking, get fresh air and sunshine, reduce alcohol, relax more.... - well perhaps not all at once and you may not need to!
Re anxiety - if you can find mental/coping strategies to help deal with this then all the better - there is a site called no more panic and there are many posts about mindfulness and techniques to help relax etc.
Do keep us posted on your progress and let's hope you feel better really soon. I have been on patches for over 9 years and they worked within a week or so - but the dose was higher (and still is) - I am in my 60's

Hurdity x