Thanks to all for your replies.
I am afraid to use 50mg patch by itself. On days I change my patch, it seems to give me foot/ankle pain, upper back tightness and keeps me awake so I think it may be more than I need. The progesterone seems to relieve this due to its opposition effects. When I cut the patch to 25mg and don't take the progesterone at the end of the month for 4 days, I am fine. If I use 25mg all month, the progesterone is too much for this lower estrogen dose and VA/bladder symptoms come back. Using 37.5mg patch has not been enough with every night progesterone either.
Thus, I think I could probably get away with 25mg all month without progesterone (would be willing to try), but am frightened to use 200mg progesterone for 14 days as to what it will cause with the VA. One doctor put me on 200mg nightly all month with the 50mg patch and I suffered terribly until I stopped it. If I use 100mg progesterone for 14 days, I may not get a bleed on that regimen, correct?? Interestingly, I have stopped the vagifem for the last 3 mo. due to burning the day after I use it and I seem to be fine without it so far. If I drop the estrogen dose of the patch to 25mg, I suspect I may need to start vagifem again which has always caused me problems even though it helps.
I don't see my doctor until mid summer. My daughter is getting married at the end of May, and I plan to keep my correct regime until after the festivities are over as I don't want to have that horrible VA/bladder symptom during this time.
I like the idea of Crinone, do you use the 4% or the 8% gel, Elizabeth?? Stellajane, I am in US and we don't have femoston. We only have combo products with the androgenic type progestins which make me gain weight and lose hair, both the patch and the pill combos, but I may consider these again after this wedding business is over. What doses of estrogen do you think you are getting with your estrogen?
How I would love to quit everything! However, last time (2 yrs ago) that I stopped hormones, I was fine for 3 mo, then the VA struck relentlessly and it took 4 mo to get back to a comfortable level. Vagifem was useless as was the estring. I had to go back on the patch and progesterone to relieve it. After suffering in peri and early meno for years with VA/bladder atrophy with stupid doctors who had no idea what it was, I am reluctant to revisit those horrible years.