Hi again, Debs. I'm 39 now. Yes, it happened super fast. Two years ago, often when going out with my husband who is my age, my baby, and a dear friend that was 19 at the time, people thought the 19 year old and I were a couple and the baby was ours! I don't know who they thought my husband was. And now I'm being mistaken for the mother of 30+ year olds.
I will say that I think the hrt has helped my facial aging a little. I could always go with or without makeup, and slacked on moisturizing. The past several months I have had to be religious with moisturizing and haven't dared to leave the house without full makeup. While I'm still not going out without makeup, I think I could almost go back to being a chapstick and mascara only kind of girl. Hopefully with continued improvement by midsummer I can.
It is scary. I wish I could tell you it definitely gets better, but I'm still having days where I fall into a cycle of doubt and throw myself a big pity party and mourn the loss of who I was. The girls on here have helped tremendously with encouragement. I have determined I will not be an old lady overnight just because of the menopause. There are girls that have a sugical menopause following hysterectomy much younger than us, and they don't retire to their rocking chairs forever. I have to keep reminding myself of these things.