Hi all,
Rare post from me

Been a member for years now and still regularly read the forum but the amount of knowledge on here has grown so much, so don't feel I have anything to contribute.
However! I have had a TVT, back in 2011 so felt I might pop in to this page just to say that not sure that a TVT mentioned by your gp would be quite the right thing for you, Libby1. The op is really to cure stress incontinence and what you seem to be describing is urge incontinence I think?
In fact in my case I took 5 years from being originally offered the op to make up my mind and my stress incontinence obviously worsened in that time. Won't bore you with all the details, but after a LOT of research I went privately and had op. And although overall I don't regret it as it definitely stopped the constant leakage I was getting, it did actually leave me with urge incontinence

This seems to be quite a rare after effect. In my surgeon's case it happened in less than 1% of his operations but just wanted to make that point.
Hope it all eases off for you, do know how miserable it can be.