It helps having someone to be accountable to other than yourself for some stuff, doesn't it Coldethyl?
I'm grateful for DH, even though I've got up to escape his snoring! He's made me drinks, meals etc while I feel crap and encouraged me not to do anything that I don't feel up to doing.
I'm grateful to my fellow grandmother, who is coming along today to help me look after our grandson, as I'm not feeling too good.
And of course, I'm grateful for my grandchildren, who in my doting opinion are the most wonderful children in the world!