Sparkle, a lot of my recent depression is actually to do with my daughter. Her and my OH are generally on the same 'side' as she doesn't 'get' anxiety or depression either. She was with her OH from when they were 17 until 3 years ago when out of the blue, they split up and although amicable, was obviously hard. We were there obviously to pick up the pieces but she has someone new and is completely besotted and happy, which I am really pleased about but she has gone very, very selfish to the point that we are not really involved her or the grandchildren's lives a lot now and although they live close to us, her time is spent with new man and his kids. I know we were lucky to have had family holidays with them and spent most weekends with them but not now so I have found it hurtful and hard to come to terms with.
Limpy, just afraid that as soon as you say you have anxiety, the magic pills come out and all the symptoms get ignored so even though I didn't want to go for tests, now I am thinking in my warped way that I do, that she is just giving me the tablets to calm me down so that she can send me for the tests!!!
CLKD, son is having a word with OH about support. He is brilliant with me thank goodness, so I have somebody on side. OH is a bit Aspergers we joke! He doesn't do 'empathy' or 'sympathy' so yes, I often wonder how he would cope with serious stuff. He is practical but makes my stress much worse.
Sorry, this thread has turned into more anxiety related than meno but Dr dismissed suggestion of meno problems and concentrated on my usual anxiety and depression. She wasn't my usual GP so that didn't help.
Thanks again all, it really means a lot to have you all listen to me whinging on. CLKD, are MIND good? I am going to pay to go and see my lovely therapist again but it's not cheap. Drs just dish out the tablets and u less you want to wait 12 weeks for CBT, which I didn't find helpful, you're on your own.