Panic over! Phew!
On the topic of people leaving, CLKD, I think your idea is a good one - if people DO feel they have to leave, it would be great if they tell us first so a) if anyone has upset them they have the chance to put it right and b) if they're leaving because they need a break or are so over the menopause that they don't need MM anymore, we know they've gone for good reasons not awful ones!
Though I hope no one leaves.