I know how you feel. When I had the pain, pressure and tingling, it was in a slightly different place but I am sure the sheer exhaustion of coping with it is the same. I spent £££ on treatments, every time convinced 'this is the one' when in fact, it wasnt.
Until you definitely know the cause, you cant easily treat it. Assuming it's some sort of nerve/neuralgic pain (estrogen does affect the nervous system and it was in fact a neurologist who made the connection with my weird symptoms and my hormones), and not related to your bones/structural issues (have you had x rays?) have you tried any of the drugs available for nerve pain such as Gabapentin, Amitriptyline, Pregablin or Cymbalta?
For me, I think water retention was the problem, caused by hormonal issues. This impinged on nearby nerves (I believe this is why pregnant women can get CTS, a condition that causes similar issues but obviously in a different part of the body!). Once my hormones were a bit more under control, the symptoms eased. x
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It's possible that hormones have something to do with carpal tunnel syndrome as some women develop the condition during pregnancy or the menopause. Hormones released during pregnancy can result in fluid retention in the tissues and increased pressure in your carpal tunnel. See our frequently asked questions for more information.