Hi Zoo1
sorry you've had such a time.
I think your story should be whats in the mind of most doctors when they refuse ladies HRT because its too early.
Some post lately from others who've been refused.
Why aren't you moving to Gel and Utro now?
Giving you steroid cream for down there is just wrong.
Steroid creams are known to thin the skin and doing this in skin that should be "plump" from estrogen is just wrong.
No wonder your finding it not much help.
I found my mother had been using it for years without much help either, was really annoyed at her doc.
Which HRT's have you tried before and how long for each?
The Gel and Utro are great.
Remember though you'll have to be fastidious with the application of the gel. If you are not then you wont be getting enough.
One route you can go down with this as an alternative.
Keep the utro. However start the Estrogen with tablet form (2mg+). You'll need a high dose as 2mg is the recommended starting dose to treat Osteoporoses. Anything less and its not going to be enough for you at this tricky stage.
If you get the dosage in 1mg tablets then you can start to try and move to gel option gently. 1mg and the rest in gel.
Remember you can spread taking the 2 * 1mg tablets across the day. So later you can take a tablet in the evening and get some gel in the morning when you have a shower for example. If it works well (gel) then you can move fully too it. Again you can have some in the morning and some later in the day before you goto bed
See how it goes and how it fits in with your life.
The choice is yours but you want to make this as easy as possibly initially and hang on for a while (at least 6 months)
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Hope that helps