I went to a baby shower the other day with loads of young Mums and a few older ladies like myself. the young Mums are all local girls who have jobs like beauty therapists, hairdressers, shop assistants, school kitchen assistant, waitresses etc so they are not high earners but we discussed our current situations and it was generally agreed that we all had quite a nice standard of living.
They all take holidays, mostly abroad, they have cars and are able to take their kids off to theme parks, weekends away or to various paid clubs and activities. Many were well ahead of me, having already bought ALL their Xmas presents. They get free nursery hours and the younger ones get free school meals. Nail extensions, hair streaks, microbladed eyebrows, they can all afford those.
They seem to be able to afford a lot more than I could at their age. I couldn't afford to take foreign holidays until I reached 40. We got no free nursery places and no free school meals. There were no top ups if you were on a low wage and as for buying Xmas presents I used to have to buy second hand lego and knit dolls clothes and toys for them when they were small. Theme parks and weekends away never featured in our life. As for all the beauty stuff, no way could I have afforded to treat myself.
I consider myself comfortably off and can just buy anything I fancy and most of my friends are the same. many own homes in France or Spain as well as their main home. I get a bus pass, free prescriptions and eye tests and a winter fuel payment. Lots of places give Senior Citizens discounts.
Life could be a lot worse for many of us.