Hi roisen
I'm 62 and I've been on HRT for 8 years and intend to continue - my doc is OK with this ( one of them) as was the spcialist who did a hysteroscopy the year I turned 60. There is little information about older women and HRT that is bio-identical (ie oestrogen and progesterone) but the advice on here is that between the ages of 60 and 70 the risks are equal to the benefits, so all being well healthwise, 70 is what I am aiming for, and that will be 16 years on HRT. Many women who have early menopause stay on HRT much longer than that. I presume the doc is thinking that you have been on it 10 years after the average age of menopause (51-52). Nevertheless guidelines are changing.
Do have a read of these papers if you are interested - 2013 recommendations of the British Menopause Society and Women's Health Concern:
http://min.sagepub.com/content/19/2/59. Prevention of diseases after menopause (where HRT is reviewed in relation to various conditions eg heartm bones etc)
http://www.imsociety.org/downloads/world_menopause_day_2014/white_paper/wmd_white_paper_english.pdf. New draft NICE Guidelines on menopause
https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/GID-CGWAVE0639/documents/menopause-draft-guideline-nice2 Nothing is said about limiting time on HRT or age to stop.
As honeybun says if you intend to be on it long term then gel or patches are better/associated with lower risk. I am still on a (long) cycle at 62 because I don't want to take progestogens the whole time - but not sure how that would sit with your history of cysts? It may be the specialist is concerned about your uterus lining? You would expect mood swings on Femoston 2/10 due to stopping and starting progestogen just as with normal pmt - although your oestorgen level remains constant. Changes in your digestion and other factors can alter the absorption of oestrogen from tablet HRT too. Is your specialist a menopause gynae or the one who treated your polyps?
Ideally you want to remain on some sort of HRT but without endangering your health ie uterus, since you've had problems.
I think if you want a professional opinion on your situation before going back to the specialist then an e-mail consultation (costs £25) with Dr Currie ( tells you how to do this on the site home page) might be the way forward - be as explicit as possible about your history as you have detailed below and she will be able to advise.
Hope this helps
Hurdity x