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Spadger

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #15 on: May 13, 2015, 06:45:27 PM »

Thanks for that dazned - I will have a think about it :-)
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CLKD

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #16 on: May 13, 2015, 08:39:19 PM »

That's good that you had a good conversation with the Nurse.  Did the wine help  ;) ………

I had breast disease in the 1990s but would still ask for HRT if necessary.  My VA is eased by vaginally applied HRT twice weekly.
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Spadger

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #17 on: May 14, 2015, 10:30:17 AM »

Yes CLKD the wine helped a great deal  ;) so did a very understanding (& long-suffering) husband who said not to bother cooking and fetched a Chinese takeaway.  Sorry to hear that you had breast disease and I hope you are ok now.  I'm still teetering on the edge of going to the doctors about HRT for dreadful flushes/night sweats etc, but something just stops me each time I feel I can't cope.  I'm quite pig-headed about being able to get through this without intervention as I have been through puberty/pregnancy and feel that my body should be able to do this... poor dear sad old body
Love Spadger x
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dazned

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #18 on: May 14, 2015, 10:56:07 AM »

Spadger just remember no one gets a  :medal: for suffering unnecessarily !   ;D

We all sometimes need a helping hand !
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CLKD

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #19 on: May 18, 2015, 05:07:21 PM »

Spadger -  :kick:
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You have to think of your family too in all this - it isn't called 'the change' for nowt.  I was in a similar frame of mind about ADs. - I lost 3 years of my Life  :'( by refusing to accept that my brain needed support ……..
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Spadger

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #20 on: May 18, 2015, 09:37:57 PM »

Thank you CLKD and dazned, I'm just so anxious about the side effects of HRT and ADs. A friend of mine was given ADs before Xmas for flushes as well as mood - she does seem to be a bit better emotionally - still stressy though, her flushes are gone but she's put so much weight on (something which would really bother me). I also worry about the health risks with HRT as well as the weight gain  :-\
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CLKD

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #21 on: May 19, 2015, 08:30:20 AM »

It is unlikely to be ADs that put on weight in your friend's case.  I have been on various types since 1988 and haven't put on an ounce .......... when I stopped walking regularly I gained weight, almost 2 stone! and it took 14 months of walking to get it off!
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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #22 on: May 19, 2015, 02:20:06 PM »

I had one today too. I was anxious too. V fierce looking nurse but when I spoke to her, she was quite gentle.
However, I'm spotting afterwards. I'm on HRT with no periods. Is this local trauma to the cervix or anything I should worry about?
sorry for mini thread hijack, didn't want to start another one so similar.
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CLKD

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #23 on: May 19, 2015, 02:21:53 PM »

Probably a small blood vessel 'nicked' inside?  Is it when you wipe only?  If it continues for more than a couple of days give the Nurse a ring.
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Claireylou

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #24 on: May 19, 2015, 02:34:13 PM »

Hi Oldsheep,

I have spotted following my last couple of smears. My nurse told me it's because she had been pretty thorough. It calmed down after a day or two. I think it depends where along in your cycle you are too. The cervix sits lower at certain points.
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oldsheep

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #25 on: May 19, 2015, 02:35:28 PM »

no, it's all the time. I have a panty pad on. That horrible 'leaking' feeling. Wasn't there prior to the test though. I don't have cycles as I'm on continuous HRT and in my mid 50s.
Can I use vagifem tonight?

I'd not go back to that battleaxe nurse too readily!
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CLKD

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #26 on: May 19, 2015, 02:39:29 PM »

Yep.  Keep the Vagifem regime going  ;)
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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #27 on: May 19, 2015, 03:42:13 PM »

The little bottle brushes they use now do seem to induce spotting.  More so than the old wooden spatulas.
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oldsheep

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Re: Anxious about smear test :-/
« Reply #28 on: May 19, 2015, 05:23:17 PM »

The little bottle brushes they use now do seem to induce spotting.  More so than the old wooden spatulas.

brilliantly put  ;D  If it was anything like my bottle brush just coming into flower, I'm not surprised it's spotting!

Still a little bit of spotting going on. I swam yesterday (thought b****r it, I'm just going to - it's not much, touch wood) and used vagifem at 5am today as I forgot to use it at midnight last night.
If it's still spotting by tuesday I'll call the GPs. Everything has shut down until then.
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