Hi Annie
"Having had a hysterectomy years ago with no hot flushes and not arguing with random people I thought I had early onset of dementia and that they hadn't found a terminal illness"
I think you sum up how a lot of us feel (that we have some sort of illness).
However well meaning by saying this is a natural process we go through, I feel that this in many ways reduces the focus and causes confusion in how we understand and treat peri and meno.
It might be easy for some but I truly believe those are a very small minority.
Now most of the recent studies agree that most ladies symptoms will last
at least 7 years.
In any other words this is a chronic condition that effects and diminishes people lives and loves.
To ignore it is really not an option anymore, we need to be more understood and empathized with more.
Righting off 7-10 years more when I feel I've wasted a few so far with my symptoms is not an option anymore.
For me I felt ill, looked ill and was worried that I was ill. Until I received the help I needed I was in a bit of a mess.
However the treatment I got upto the point I got my HRT was further blindsiding me, confusing and a waste of my time (and NHS money), at a time when I was very worried, upset and vulnerable.
A horrible mix which put a strain on me and my family.
I feel more confident now and will try to avoid being blindsided ever again.