No I don't mind you asking,nothing's sacred nowadays !
I was 49 still having periods regularly,totally normal woman then ,out of the blue for absolutely no reason I became nauseous,horrendous panic attacks,palpitations,anxiety,I was off work for about 4 months ! Took me that length of time to go through all the doctors at my surgery then to finally get one to agree it was hormonal! Most wanted me to have ADs,I wouldn't,well I tried a few mainly to placate them ,couldn't get on with them. One doctor even wrote me a prescription for an asthma inhaler which he said was why I had a tight chest and feeling of not being able to breath properly! It wasn't !
Eventually started hrt symptoms all went ! Back to work happy bunny,until now symptoms started to creep back end of last year so trying to get hrt tweaked which has been a roller coaster to say the least . Thought it would be easy as I struck lucky with first hrt.
Just started another one this weekend so we will see but I must say the mirtazapine has stabilized me somewhat . If this new regime seems to suit I will attempt to stop taking mirtazapine, if symptoms come back I will continue mirtazapine,if hrt this time doesn't suit me I will stop the hrt and see if I can cope without it just the ADS! If that doesn't work guess it's back to the drawing board !