Hi libra62, I'm new to the forum too but found everyone really helpful.
I couldn't take the pill either due to the migraines it gave me. My hormonal headaches got worse (I'm peri) and I had one every morning for months, no period for months either, and then bam - bleeding non stop. However, started hrt last month and despite problems with initial bleeding my headaches disappeared straight way! Hang in there, things will improve and there is lots of support here. Good luck and hope things settle down soon.
Mel x